Randy Hurlburt
Certified Relationship Coach for Singles
Managing Partner, Conscious Dating San Diego
“Daring to speak the truth about love”
My mission
My mission is to spread understanding of good love (and good sex) to millions of people.
What I do
I show singles, and couples on the brink, how to have exciting and successful relationships.
How I do it
I coach individuals and groups, give presentations, write and publish books, and work with business partners to promote good love.
I offer straight talk about love and sex.
My services are available worldwide by telephone and e-mail, and in-person in San Diego.
Who I am
I have devoted my life to understanding what love is all about. I was trained by the famous psychologist Harold Bessell, Ph.D., and I have been around the world in my own search for a soulmate. My more than 20 years experience evaluating love relationships has now become a worldwide relationship coaching practice.
I am an RCI Certified Relationship Coach for Singles, a Certified Interaction Management Instructor, a member of the San Diego Coaches Alliance, and a member of the Independent Writers Association of Southern California. I have advanced degrees from Princeton University and the University of Southern California.
I am quiet, deep, intense, caring, affectionate, unconventional, goal oriented, persistent, patient, and I enjoy interacting with clients on a deep level in order to help them understand and improve their relationships.
I enjoy reading, family, friends, love, sex, flying, dancing, music, exercise, language, and travel. I believe in a universal force for good in the world, and try to tune in to it and trust it to guide my life.
I live in San Diego, have two children, and am engaged to be married.
My coaching philosophy
You most likely have learned from experience that good love (and good sex) are hard to find. I can explain why, and show you what to do to beat the odds. I want everyone to have better love (and more exciting sex).
My unique style is based on understanding your goals, and placing them in the context of realistic possibilities. I can help you clarify your feelings, show you how to assess your partner's (or potential partner's) ability to handle a relationship, and assist you in using the love tests developed by Dr. Bessell to predict the future of your relationship.
My job is to show you how to find the love of your life, and to create the life that you love.
My specialty
My specialty is high chemistry relationships. If you have been “struck by lightning” and are not sure if you’ll ever recover, contact me. I will teach you how to turn lighting into power.
My book
Love Is Not A Game (But You Should Know the Odds) is an award winning psychology/self-help book that explains in easy to read language why good love (and good sex) are so hard to find and what to do about it. In this book I give you straight answers about romance, maturity, sex, and more. You will learn:
- The four key things to look for in a love relationship
- How much time to invest in any relationship
- What to do for sex and emotional fulfillment while not in a relationship
- How to get more excitement out of sex within a relationship
- Strategies to use to beat the odds and find good love (and good sex).
This book contains both of Dr. Bessell’s Love Tests.
Learn my secrets and you too can have exciting and successful relationships!
What Others Say
- "I just wanted to say thank you for the class, your kindness, and the very helpful material in your book. It has opened my eyes a lot. I am so thankful that I had the opportunity to take this course and learn much-needed lessons in how "good love" works."
- Nancy H., a teleseminar participant
- "There is a deep wisdom to Randy's ideas that simply feels right, and with the logical way in which they are presented, it becomes possible to better understand the mysterious force that we call 'love.'"
- Lola R., a telephone coaching client
- "If you need qualified answers to your questions or you really care about the love of your life, write to Randy Hurlburt."
- Christina C., a "Relationship Success" program graduate
- "Out-of-the-box and on-target"
- Chris Brewer, KTIK Radio.
- "This Sooooooo makes sense to me!"
- Shari, a Love Is Not A Game newsletter subscriber
- “Passionate, Provocative…Taboo-Breaking fun.”
- Dr. Laurie Betito, Psychologist and Sex Therapist
Contact Information
Randy Hurlburt, Certified Relationship Coach for Singles
Dating Website: www.ConsciousDatingSanDiego.com
Coaching Website: www.loveisnotagame.com
E-mail: randy@loveisnotagame.com
Telephone: 1-877-MAGIC-04